Since I base me attraction on who likes me ..there is no reason to like a certain race anymore?

Women who are eager to mate and live out their potential as women decide that they will be attracted to whoever is attracted to them.I have always had a aesthetic liking towards white men but they do not seem attracted to me on bit. My liking was never verified by what i saw on the media; hence I was never brainwashed. There just seems to be no point in liking them because they do not seem attracted to me at all. Is this normal?